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Not seeing each other before the wedding

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Not seeing each other before the wedding was once considered essential. This superstition comes from the era of arranged marriages, when it was feared the couple might back out if they met beforehand. It evolved into the romantic "first look" at the altar. Many couples now skip it in favor of private pre-ceremony photos. Understandable!

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Marrying in white

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Popularized by Queen Victoria in 1840, the white gown symbolized purity and wealth. U.S. brides embraced the trend for over a century, but modern weddings increasingly feature colorful gowns or non-traditional attire. Some pick their favorite color! Why not?

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Wearing a veil

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Once meant to protect brides from evil spirits or hide them from jealous eyes, the veil became a symbol of modesty. In the U.S., it persisted more as a fashion choice. Today, many brides favor hairpieces, flowers, or nothing at all.

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Roast speeches

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Roast-style speeches became popular as toasts with a humorous edge, sometimes poking fun at the couple, especially at casual receptions. While funny for some, they’ve also led to plenty of awkward moments. Have you ever seen a video online of particularly harsh ones? As a result, many weddings now stick to heartfelt speeches to avoid offense.

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Throwing a bouquet

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This playful tradition gave single women a "good luck" charm for marriage. It replaced older customs where guests tore pieces from the bride’s dress for luck. Many couples now swap it for alternative games or skip it entirely.

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Receiving queues

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For decades, couples stood in a formal line after the ceremony to greet each guest in turn. It was a way to ensure everyone felt acknowledged. But some prefer not to miss that informal mingling during the reception! Instead, they spend time with their loved ones more casually, enjoying the natural flow of the party.

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Matching bridesmaids’ dresses

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Tradition once had bridesmaids dressed alike in the same color, cut, and fabric to create a uniform look. Today’s weddings often mix styles, shades, and even prints. The change allows friends to choose something flattering—and something they can actually wear again.

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Full sit-down dinners

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The classic multi-course plated meal was once a wedding reception staple. Today, many couples opt for food trucks, buffet tables, or hearty hors d’oeuvres for a more social, less formal vibe. And, let’s face it, it also helps with costs and keeps the timeline flexible.

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Saving the top tier of the cake

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Couples once froze the top tier of their wedding cake to eat on their first anniversary, as a symbol of enduring love. But after a year in the freezer, the result was often stale and unappetizing. These days, many order a fresh mini cake instead.

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Rice throwing

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Showering the couple with rice at the exit was a long-held sign of prosperity and fertility. Concerns over mess, safety, and wildlife led to alternatives like bubbles, sparklers, or flower petals. The celebration remains, just with less sweeping.

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Dollar dance

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In this tradition, guests paid for a short dance with the bride or groom, contributing to the couple’s honeymoon fund. It was playful and personal, but could feel awkward or even outdated. Many couples now skip it in favor of more inclusive group dances.

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Matching family seating sides

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Traditionally, guests sat on the side of the family they knew best—the bride’s family on the left, the groom’s on the right. Today, signs inviting guests to "sit anywhere" reflect a blending of families and a more casual approach. Alternatively, tables may be intentionally assigned to mix new people together.

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Garter tosses

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Once a bawdy medieval custom where guests scrambled for proof of consummation, it became a lighthearted party moment in American weddings. The groom removes and tosses the bride’s garter to single men. Today, it’s often skipped because it can feel outdated or awkward.

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California - "Eureka"

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According to legend, after the Ancient Greek mathematician Archimedes discovered his groundbreaking principle, he happily proclaimed, " Eureka! " This expression, which means "I have found it," is almost as famous as Archimedes’ work, so it stands to reason that the State of California chose Eureka as its state motto.

The Golden State’s slogan references the California Gold Rush. It is believed that a miner who finally struck gold was as excited about his discovery as Good Old Archimedes was. While the California State Seal has included the word Eureka since its design in 1850, it was only adopted as the state’s official motto over a hundred years later, in 1963.

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Kansas - "To the stars through difficulties"

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In 1861, the State of Kansas adopted its official state seal which depicted a beautiful prairie at dawn, filled with hardworking Kansans under 34 stars and the Latin motto Ad Astra Per Aspera. Anyone who reads the English translation of this motto will immediately realize how perfectly it describes the industrious and resilient people of Kansas: Ad Astra Per Aspera means "To the stars through difficulties."

Our 34th state chose this phrase alongside its state seal in 1861, only a few months after the first Governor of Kansas delivered the inaugural "State of the State" address. Nowadays, this motto stands as a reminder of both the bravery and diligence of the state’s first settlers, as well as the hardships that Kansas had to go through in order to gain statehood.

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Indiana - "Crossroads of America"

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The phrase "Crossroads of America" has long been associated with the state of Indiana , particularly after a specific intersection in Terre Haute, where U.S. Highways 40 and 41 met. Over time, Indiana itself proudly embraced the title of "the Crossroads of America," eventually adopting it as the state motto in 1937.

Interestingly, while "Crossroads of America" is the state’s official motto, some Hoosier cities have adopted this phrase —or variants of it— as their respective city slogans. For instance, Indianapolis adopted the motto in 1988, to reference how the city serves as a junction of 4 different Interstate Highways.

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West Virginia - "Mountaineers are always free"

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Have you ever reached the summit of a particularly steep mountain after hours of arduous trekking? If you had to describe that amazing feeling in one word, what would it be? We’ll leave you to ponder that while we tell you the first word that came into our minds: freedom.

Apparently, we share this feeling with the good people of West Virginia , since its motto reflects the freedom that its magnificent mountains and hills inspire. West Virginia’s motto is the Latin phrase Montani Semper Liberi, which means "mountaineers are always free." Furthermore, since one of West Virginia’s demonyms is "mountaineers," this phrase also speaks to the core of West Virginians’ identity.

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New York - "Excelsior"

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Any Marvel fan will associate this phrase with comic-book legend Stan Lee, after all, he made this word his catchphrase throughout his many media appearances. However, you might be surprised to learn that "Excelsior" is also New York’s official state motto, and it perfectly describes New Yorkers’ industrious and resilient nature.

"Excelsior" is a Latin word that’s commonly translated as "Ever Upward," but it can also mean "higher" or "superior." It is featured in New York’s coat of arms, which features the representations of Liberty and Justice standing above the state’s motto.

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Montana - "Gold and Silver"

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Just like West Virginia, Montana pays tribute to its breathtaking mountains and landscapes with its motto. However, it focuses on another key aspect of its geography, more akin to its nickname: Montana’s motto Oro y Plata literally translates to "Gold and Silver," which is a direct reference to The Treasure State’s proud mining history.

Montana first included the phrase Oro y Plata on its State Seal many years before it was adopted as the state’s official motto. Shortly after Montana was declared an official U.S. territory in 1864, the newly formed state honored the gold rush that had led to its territorial status by including its two most precious metals into its State Seal. Finally, the state motto was officialized in 1865.

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Tennessee - "Agriculture and Commerce"

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It’s no secret that state mottos sometimes reference their state’s most prominent industry: As we mentioned before, Montana and California pay tribute to the mining that helped build their economies. In that regard, Tennessee is no exception; its state motto is incredibly straightforward, directly praising the industries that helped the Big Bend State grow.

Tennessee chose "Agriculture and Commerce" in 1987. In turn, this motto was directly taken from the State Seal, which was adopted in 1801. The seal shows both sides of this state’s industry, with "Agriculture" referenced by a bundle of wheat and a cotton plant, while "Commerce" is depicted by a riverboat, presumably trading goods.

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Texas - "Friendship"

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Texas’s state motto may only feature one word, but it singlehandedly describes an essential part of Texan history. Before we can delve into that, though, we have to take a quick look into the etymology of the name of this great state. The word Texas is believed to come from the Caddo word táy:shaʼ , which means "friend." Spanish settlers adopted this word for the area, spelling it as Texas or Tejas.

In that sense, Texas pays homage to its history with the single-word motto "Friendship." Not only that, while Texas is mostly known by the nickname "The Lone Star State," its official slogan is "The Friendly State."

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Vermont - "May the fourteenth star shine bright" & "Freedom and Unity"

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Vermont is the only state on this list to feature two official mottos: "Freedom and Unity" and the Latin phrase " Stella quarta decima fulgeat, " which translates to "May the 14th Star Shine Bright." Interestingly, this last phrase is also the newest slogan to be made official, since it was elected as Vermont’s state motto in 2015.

In any case, both mottos represent Vermont’s individuality, strength, and, perhaps more importantly, its solidarity: "Freedom and Unity" describes Vermont’s mission to create a free and neighborly community, while "May the 14th Star Shine Bright" depicts the search of the common good throughout the entire state.

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Rhode Island - "Hope"

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We’ll end this article with probably the most beautifully simple American state motto. The State of Rhode Island has the single-word motto "Hope," which is also featured in its State seal. In tune with their long maritime history, the seal depicts a golden anchor emblazoned in a dark blue field.

The inspiration behind both Rhode Island’s state motto and seal is probably a biblical quote found in the New Testament, which reads "Hope we have as an anchor of the soul." Considering that this state was founded by a Christian minister seeking to escape religious persecution, this single word expresses a very powerful sentiment: the hope that people could find in this new land a place of refuge and freedom.

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Fact: Presidents can drive

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It sounds fun to imagine the president taking the wheel for a spin around town, right? Maybe a quiet drive to clear their head or grab a meal in secret behind the tinted glass. But can they really do that?

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Answer: False

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Presidents haven’t been allowed to drive on public roads since Lyndon B. Johnson, but they can still enjoy a little time behind the wheel inside fenced areas like Camp David or their own ranch. George W. Bush often drove around his property in Texas, with the Secret Service keeping a close watch, of course!

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Fact: Presidents can’t attend their kids’ plays or games

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Yes, we know presidential tasks are of utmost importance, but we can all agree family moments matter just as much, even in the White House. So, do you think the president can really attend a school play or a kid’s soccer game?

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Answer: True

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It’s true, they can’t unless it’s under very controlled conditions . Public outings cause too much security chaos, so these events usually happen privately. Some presidential kids even had classrooms right inside the White House so their parents could drop in for a visit without turning it into a national operation.

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Fact: Presidents can open the windows whenever they want

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Opening a window is one of the most innocent acts one can carry out, and surely, after long meetings and speeches, a little fresh air would be nice. Can the president roll down a window in the White House or a car?

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Answer: False

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That simple act is off-limits for security reasons , of course. Michelle Obama once said her security team gave her a five-minute "window treat" on a drive to Camp David, and it felt like freedom. The rest of the time, those windows stay shut tight.

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Fact: Presidents can’t use commercial airlines

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You know Air Force One is specifically designed for the President, and you also know that every president travels constantly , but can they ever hop on a regular American Airlines flight like the rest of us?

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Answer: True

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They absolutely can’t fly commercial, but they do take plenty of flights on Air Force One and Marine One. These aircraft are packed with communication systems , security measures, and comfort most travelers can only dream about. It’s safe to say they don’t miss boarding lines.

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Fact: Presidents can use regular gadgets from the store

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Whoever the president is, when they get to the White House, they already have a phone. So, they must be able to use regular phones . Or, for example, a brand-new iPhone or tablet seems harmless enough. Surely the president can pick one up and start scrolling. Do you think this is true or false?

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Answer: False

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Standard devices aren’t secure enough. Presidents use specially modified versions that can’t be hacked. Barack Obama had a limited-access BlackBerry, and Joe Biden’s smartwatch and the Peloton were both customized for safety. Even the leader of the free world has tech limits.

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Fact: Presidents can block people on social media

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Alright, so a new president is in office, and they get a brand new secure phone. But with millions of online followers, it must be tempting to block a few loud voices . Surely the president has that right.

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Answer: False

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Nope. A federal court decided that official social media accounts are public forums , which means blocking users violates the First Amendment. Presidents have to let everyone speak their mind, even if the comments section gets a little rowdy.