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Choose a villain

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If reason were to govern our thoughts on the matter, no one could deny that seeing people of all ages dressed up as their favorite villains is a weird thing. We’ll discuss the treating part later, but let’s get into the costumes first.

This tradition has deep roots, and it goes all the way back to the Middle Ages and the ancient festival of Samhain. Now what was the purpose of the costumes? People used to believe that spirits roamed the earth on this particular night so, dressing up in costumes was the way to ward off these phantoms. Quite original, don’t you think?

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Apple bobbing

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Among the spooky traditions, there is also one that relates to romance and love: bobbing for apples, and we’ve got Great Britain to thank for it.

In this game, an apple represented a potential husband, and, faith for young women who wished to marry was settled by how many attempts it took her to retrieve an apple. One bite meant jolly matrimony. Two bites, a not-so-long-lasting courtship. And three… Well, that relationship was doomed altogether.

Samhain was celebrated at the end of the harvest, and when Irish immigrants brought their costumes to America, this game fit fall festivities to perfection becoming a beloved Halloween game.

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Jack-o’-lanterns

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Who is Jack, and why was he immortalized in a Halloween lantern? Well, it is all, of course, part of a curious legend. As the story goes, Jack tricked the devil twice. The first time, he tricked the Devil into becoming a coin and then, by making him promise not to claim his soul. However, all these tricks only brought nasty consequences—neither hell nor heaven wanted him.

So what happened? He was left to wander the earth with only a burning coal inspiring a carved-out turnip to light his way.

Turnips were just the start for the Scottish and Irish, soon they turned to beets and potatoes, and the tradition took the shape of pumpkins for Americans.

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Trick or treat yourself!

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We’ve discussed the costumes, so let’s dive into the sweets. What’s the origin of knocking on doors and asking for candy?

When the Catholic Church established All Souls’ Day, in the Middle Ages, the costume tradition remained and a new one was added: knocking on doors and offering prayers for the dead in exchange for food. This was a practice called "souling."

But souling also suffered some changes and, in modern times, it evolved into what we know as "trick-or-treating," an activity in which children go door-to-door promising mischief if they don’t receive candy. Now you know this, we bet you’ll always give treats away!

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Black cats, good or bad?

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In some cultures, spotting a black cat is a one-way ticket to destruction. In others, a black cat is a good luck omen, a sign that you’ll even find love. However, in America, black cats are part of the first group and have become a key symbol in Halloween celebrations and decorations.

Why is that? Because, in the Middle Ages, these poor animals were associated with witches and witchcraft. They were believed to have powers and to be connected to the evil spirits roaming the earth. True or not, they certainly add to the eerie atmosphere of Halloween, don’t you think?

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Black and orange

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Have you ever wondered why we use these particular colors during the Halloween season? Well, the choice was not random at all, it has to do with the meaning behind orange and black.

For one, orange is related to the autumn season, and the end of the harvest (the original time of the Celtic celebration).

Black, on the other hand, brings in the spookiness and the mystery that we all love about Halloween night. It represents the color of the night sky, the shadows, and all things that add to the eerie atmosphere of the evening.

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Haunted houses

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This tradition reveals the true essence of the Halloween spirit: to get as many scares as one can in a single night. All across America, on October 31st, families get their houses ready to invite people over for a thrilling experience.

Haunted houses aim to evoke tension and fear through ghostly figures, spooky decorations, dimmed lights, and chilling sounds with special effects. Have you ever visited one?

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Bonfires

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Bonfires, another tradition inherited from the Celtic celebration, are less common but they are still a Halloween tradition. As you can imagine, the original intention of the bonfires was to ward off evil spirits and to honor the Gods.

In the more modern Irish and Scottish traditions, the bonfires were part of a protective and communal custom that later made its way to America. In turn, this tradition has only remained to add warmth and a sense of togetherness to the holiday.

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Candy Frenzy

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If you ask any child, candy is the best reason to celebrate Halloween. And we can’t blame them— they get to dress up, knock on doors, and get dozens of candies they will later exchange and eat in the company of their loved ones.

In our country, it’s not just the children or the houses who get ready for Halloween—the Marketing industry does too! Every year, countless candy brands (any brand really) adapt their products to make them Halloween-themed. The season kicks off when your local supermarket hangs those spiderwebs up and you start spotting black and orange packaging all over!

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Scary stories

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After collecting all the candies that were rightfully theirs for dressing up, children and young adults all over the country get together to end the night devouring their treats and immersing themselves one last time in the eerie atmosphere: It’s time for the spine-tingling tales.

No Halloween celebration is complete without a good dose of scary stories, fables of ancient times with mysterious characters and details that send shivers down the listeners’ spines. Why? For the sake of fear, after all, Halloween night is all about the supernatural!

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Elvis Presley was naturally blond

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No, that jet-black pompadour wasn’t natural! Elvis entered the world with sandy blond hair, which gradually darkened to light brown as he aged.

But when he began chasing a movie career, he dyed it black, as legend has it, using shoe polish before he could afford the real dye.

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Marilyn Monroe’s library held over 400 books

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Did you know that Marilyn was a serious bibliophile? Her personal collection reportedly exceeded 400 books . It included subjects like art, history, philosophy, and classic literature, from Ulysses by James Joyce to The Portable Dorothy Parker .

She was often photographed reading between takes, and her friends described her as a genuinely curious and thoughtful woman.

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Sinatra had a hidden knack for painting

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The voice behind "My Way" also spent decades expressing himself through a brush. Through the decades, he painted hundreds of canvases , from colorful abstracts to cubist-inspired portraits, which he often signed with a simple "Sinatra."

His friends said he painted almost daily at home in Palm Springs.

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Elizabeth Taylor once proposed marriage… and was rebuffed

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Elizabeth Taylor famously had eight marriages and seven husbands. But even before her first one, as a teenager, she took her first bold shot at love.

According to actor and Olympic swimmer Buster Crabbe , the young star once asked him to marry her, but he politely declined, saying she was too young.

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Cary Grant’s real name was Archie Leach

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"Archibald Leach" might not read like the film star that Golden Age Hollywood would covet. Archie probably guessed this, and the poor boy from Bristol, England, decided to change his name to try his luck in the industry: He would be "Cary Grant."

Once successful, the actor famously said: "Everyone wants to be Cary Grant. Even I want to be Cary Grant."

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Audrey Hepburn could speak Dutch, French, Italian, and English

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Graceful, elegant, and a polyglot. Audrey Hepburn spoke six languages ! Born in Brussels and raised in the Netherlands and England, Hepburn grew up switching between tongues with ease.

This ability later served her well in diplomacy and film. Because the face of Roman Holiday was not only a charming actress; she also famously served in UNICEF as a global ambassador.

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Lauren Bacall invented her signature "slither down" pose

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There’s a story behind Lauren Bacall’s sultry stare. Nervous during her first screen test for To Have and Have Not , Lauren steadied her trembling chin by lowering it and gazing upward. Hence, the unforgettable look was born.

Later, she perfected a seated move ( the "slither down" ) where she’d lean forward slightly, chin low, eyes locked. That pose became her trademark.

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Humphrey Bogart was kicked out of a boarding school

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There was a time in history when Humphrey Bogart’s parents were very worried about his future. As a teenager, he was expelled shortly after entering Phillips Academy in Andover, Massachusetts.

Some say he was kicked out for throwing a faculty member into a pond during a prank; others claim it was for smoking, drinking, or general "bad behavior." The true story remains private. We do know that the incident sent him straight into the U.S. Navy during World War I.

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Marilyn Monroe stood up for Ella Fitzgerald

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Marilyn had moments of real principle. In 1955, she used her influence to persuade Mocambo, a high-end nightclub in Hollywood, to book Ella Fitzgerald, who had been denied access to many such venues because of racial prejudice. The story goes that, after that performance, doors started opening for Ella both literally and figuratively.

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Marlon Brando designed Don Vito Corleone

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Producers of The Godfather did not think Marlon Brando was a good choice for the mafia movie, at first. So the star took matters into his own hands.

He slicked back his hair with shoe polish, stuffed tissues inside his cheeks to create the iconic jowls of Don Corleone, and lowered his voice into a sinister murmur. The resulting homemade screen test did win the studio over. The rest is cinematic history.

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Pulling out the good china

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In the past, people often had a set of special dishes reserved for holidays or important guests to make meals feel more memorable.

Today, many people use just one set of dishes and often eat casually, sometimes even standing over the sink. Taking the time to create a pleasant dining experience can show respect not only for your guests but also for yourself .

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Good table manners

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Good table manners are often mistaken for being overly formal or pretentious, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.

The true purpose of practicing polite dining habits is to make sure everyone enjoys a relaxed and pleasant meal together , and it’s often easier to practice than most people realize.

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Not taking off your shoes in public

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Recently, there’s been a noticeable trend of people going shoeless in places like airplanes and restaurants. As society grows more casual, some even put their bare feet on seats, armrests, or tables.

However, it's best to keep your shoes on in public unless your host specifically asks you to remove them.

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Standing when greeting someone new

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When meeting someone for the first time or welcoming someone into a group, it's polite to stand as a gesture of acknowledgment .

This simple act, expected of both men and women, conveys both warmth and respect.

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Making introductions

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Making introductions is becoming less common, yet it remains one of the most valuable social skills. Even if you forget someone’s name, it’s always better to ask than to risk letting them feel left out in a group.

Good manners are all about helping others feel at ease , and introductions don’t have to be uncomfortable or awkward when done with a little thought and effort.

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Thank-you notes

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While everyone enjoys being thanked, it has become rare for people to express gratitude in a lasting way. Any form of thanks, including a text or email, is appreciated, but a handwritten thank-you card remains the most meaningful .

The personal touch of seeing your handwriting shows thoughtfulness, and many people cherish and keep these cards, something that’s much harder to do with digital messages.

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Asking permission

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In a society where people often say, "It’s easier to apologize than to ask for permission," many act without asking, whether it’s hugging someone, posting their picture online, or taking a bite of their food.

However, it’s always more polite to ask before doing anything that involves or affects someone else . A simple question like "Are you okay with this?" can go a long way toward showing respect without taking up much time.

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Opening doors for men and women

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Chivalry may have some outdated interpretations, but politeness is something everyone can practice, regardless of gender . Simple acts like holding the door open are easy to do and appreciated by everyone.

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Holding the elevator

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In today’s world, many people are either too wary of strangers or adopt a "not my problem" attitude when seeing someone struggle in public. But as long as there’s no safety concern, it's important to continue practicing simple courtesies, like holding the elevator door for someone in a hurry .

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Returning phone calls

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As society evolves, so does etiquette, especially with the rise of new technology, but some shifts aren't always for the better. A common example is responding to a phone call with a text message.

While some people may prefer texting over speaking on the phone, it’s still considered polite to return a call with another phone call , particularly when someone has taken the time to reach out to you.

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No sunglasses indoors

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These days, it’s common to see people wearing sunglasses everywhere, even in places like movie theaters, but it raises a question: Are we avoiding others, or simply hiding behind our shades?

Eye contact is essential for effective communication, as it demonstrates respect and facilitates understanding. While it's fine to wear sunglasses outdoors, it’s best to take them off indoors to engage properly with others.

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RSVP’ing promptly

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With the rise of casual invites, often sent by email or social media, RSVPing has become increasingly rare. Failing to respond to an invitation is not only poor etiquette but also inconsiderate.

Hosts put significant time and effort into planning events, from buying food to organizing entertainment. Not RSVPing or waiting until the last minute only makes their job harder.