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Is the customer always right?

These 11 golden rules of customer service are slowly dying, and it’s sad

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Before apps, chatbots, and self-checkout lanes, American customer service followed a quiet code. These unwritten rules shaped how stores, diners, hotels, and service counters operated for decades. Many of these rules aren’t posted on walls or included in training manuals, but customers expect them all the same. Many older Americans still remember a time when good service felt personal, patient, and proudly human.

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Every customer deserves a warm greeting

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It might sound strange these days, but there was a time when walking into a store without acknowledgment was once considered bad service . Clerks were expected to smile, make eye contact, and greet customers promptly.

That greeting also set expectations. It told customers help was available and that their presence mattered. For many Americans, being welcomed was just as important as the product itself.

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Anticipating needs before being asked

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Good service meant paying attention. A waiter refilled the water before the glasses were empty. A clerk offered assistance before confusion set in. Anticipation showed experience and pride in the job, not pushiness .

Customers noticed these small gestures. They made interactions smoother and more personal, creating the feeling that service was thoughtful rather than reactive or scripted.

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Quick service shows respect for time

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Old-school service emphasized quick acknowledgement, even if immediate help wasn’t possible. Letting customers wait without explanation was considered rude . A simple "I’ll be right with you" went a long way.

Speed mattered, but calm mattered more. The goal was efficiency without rushing, making customers feel valued rather than hurried through an interaction.

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Courtesy is non-negotiable

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"Please" and "thank you" were mandatory words in customer service. These phrases weren’t optional politeness, they were expected standards that showed mutual respect between employee and customer.

Their absence was noticeable. Courtesy made transactions feel human and cooperative, reminding customers they were being served by people and not being processed by a system.

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Eye contact means attention

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Maintaining eye contact was a core part of service etiquette. It showed that the employee was listening and engaged , not distracted or indifferent. Customers felt acknowledged simply by being looked at.

Avoiding eye contact suggested boredom or disinterest. In traditional service culture, body language carried as much weight as spoken words.

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Know the product by heart

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Employees were expected to know their products or menus thoroughly. Having to constantly check references or ask others weakened customer confidence and slowed service.

Product knowledge signaled competence and pride . Customers trusted businesses more when employees spoke clearly and confidently about what they sold.

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Personal conversations stay private

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Chatting about personal matters within earshot of customers was strongly discouraged. Service time belonged to the customer, not coworkers’ off-duty lives .

This rule reinforced focus and professionalism. Customers expected attention, not background noise that suggested distraction or disinterest.

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Complaints are handled calmly

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Arguing with customers was seen as a failure of service. Employees were trained to listen first, apologize when appropriate, and resolve issues without defensiveness .

Even when customers were wrong, maintaining calm preserved dignity of both sides. The goal was always resolution, never confrontation.

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Regular customers are remembered

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Recognizing repeat customers by name or preference was common practice . It made people feel valued and turned routine visits into familiar experiences.

This personal recognition built loyalty long before reward cards existed. Customers returned because they felt known, not tracked.

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Cleanliness is godliness

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A clean counter or dining area signaled care and attention. Customers assumed that if visible areas were clean, unseen operations were handled in the same manner .

Cleanliness wasn’t just decorative, it was reassuring. It quietly communicated reliability and professionalism.

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Customer privacy is sacred

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What happened during a transaction stayed there . Discussing customers outside the interaction was considered extremely unprofessional and disrespectful.

Trust was part of the service experience. Customers expected discretion, especially in smaller communities where word traveled quickly.

Culture Culture 7 min read

Through thick and thin

Did you know these 12 historical figures were friends?

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Truman Capote considered friendship and love to be exactly the same thing. As in love, we never know what makes us fond of others enough to build a friendship. In fact, friendships can arise between people with very different backgrounds, beliefs, and professions. Some friendships between historical figures are as surprising as they are genuine, though not all were long-lasting. From John F. Kennedy and Frank Sinatra to Ella Fitzgerald and Marilyn Monroe, today we introduce you to the story of 12 friendships between great historical figures that you may not have known about but that offer a new perspective into the lives of influential personalities.

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Ella Fitzgerald and Marilyn Monroe

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Strange as it may sound, Ella Fitzgerald and Marilyn Monroe developed a beautiful friendship in the 1950s. Hollywood's favorite blonde was a big fan of Fitzgerald's music and went to see her perform in Los Angeles in 1954. When they met in person they became inseparable.

Monroe helped her land a gig at the famous Mocambo nightclub in Los Angeles, which had previously turned Fitzgerald down. These performances were a turning point in the career of the Queen of Jazz. Marilyn used to say that Ella was her favorite person and that she loved her as a person and as a singer. They remained friends until Monroe's death at the age of 36.

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Thomas Jefferson and John Adams

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John Adams and Thomas Jefferson are perhaps America's most famous pair of "frenemies". Their historic relationship began in 1775. Despite their very different political views, the two Founding Fathers maintained an on-and-off relationship for five decades, tinged by a mixture of mutual respect and contempt.

Their relationship began to crack when George Washington decided not to run for a third term, and Adams and Jefferson had to compete for the presidency. They stopped speaking to each other for 12 years, but finally, in 1812, they resumed contact. Perhaps as proof of their troubled but strong friendship, John Adams and Thomas Jefferson died just a few hours apart on July 4, 1826, the 50th anniversary of the adoption of the Declaration of Independence.

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Groucho Marx and T.S. Eliot

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One was a comedian of the absurd, the other a melancholic poet and Nobel laureate. Believe it or not, Groucho Marx and T.S. Eliot were friends and admired each other. In 1961, Eliot wrote to Marx, telling him he was a fan and asking for an autographed photo. Marx agreed to the request and asked the same of Eliot. For the next three years, the two became pen pals, exchanging many letters.

According to Groucho Marx, they shared three things: an affection for good cigars, a love of cats, and a weakness for puns. However, when they finally met in person in 1964 they realized that they didn’t have that much in common after all and their relationship started to fade.

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Ulysses S. Grant and James Longstreet

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Ulysses S. Grant was the commander of the Union Army during the Civil War. James Longstreet, on the other hand, fought for the Confederate Army and became one of General Robert E. Lee's most trusted officers. That should make them enemies, right? Well, not exactly.

Grant and Longstreet became friends as young officers in the US Army and served together in the Mexican-American War. Years later they went their separate ways but were reunited after the Confederate surrender at Appomattox Court House. In fact, it was Longstreet who convinced General Lee to surrender, knowing that Grant would offer him generous terms. As soon as Grant saw Longstreet, he shook his hand warmly and asked him to play a game of cards for old time's sake.

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Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth Cady Stanton

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Susan B. Anthony is known for having been a tireless activist who dedicated most of her 86 years to achieving women's suffrage. In 1851, Anthony met suffragist Elizabeth Cady Stanton, with whom she developed a lifelong friendship. Together they launched a national women's suffrage movement, published a newspaper called The Revolution , and gave many lectures.

Stanton died in 1902 and Anthony in 1906. It was not until 1920 that women were allowed to vote legally for the first time in U.S. federal elections, yet the legacy of these two friends was certainly invaluable.

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Mark Twain and Nikola Tesla

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Can a literary genius and a giant of science become good friends? In the case of Mark Twain and Nikola Tesla, the answer is definitely yes. Although the professions of writer and inventor seem very different, they actually have something very strong in common: creativity.

Tesla, who had been bedridden for nine months because of cholera, found in Twain's work a refuge that made him completely forget his state of despair. Meanwhile, Twain was fascinated by technological innovations and, in particular, by electricity. When the two men finally met in the 1890s, they became close friends. Over the years they maintained an assiduous correspondence and supported each other both professionally and personally.

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Bill Gates and Warren Buffett

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Bill Gates and Warren Buffett, two of the richest men in the United States, have been friends for more than 30 years. They met in 1991 at a Fourth of July celebration, and although they thought they had nothing in common, they spent 11 hours discussing business and philanthropy.

Bill and Warren played ping-pong together, traveled the world for business and pleasure, and shared several initiatives to encourage billionaires to invest their money in social and charitable endeavors. The creator of Microsoft also claims that Warren Buffett's advice and business vision were indispensable for the growth of his company.

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Mary Todd Lincoln and Elizabeth Keckley

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In the 1860s, Elizabeth Keckley, a former slave who had managed to buy her freedom and start a sewing business, landed an important position in the White House as Mrs. Mary Todd Lincoln's personal dressmaker. Despite their different upbringings, the two women developed a close relationship. In fact, the first lady came to describe her as her best friend.

Over the years Keckley became a confidant of Mrs. Lincoln; the two women traveled and worked together to raise money for the war effort. Unfortunately, their friendship ended when Keckley published her memoirs in 1868. Keckley had wanted the book to celebrate Mrs. Lincoln's legacy, but the First Lady felt betrayed as it revealed some private conversations.

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Dwight D. Eisenhower and Bob Hope

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Throughout his long career, comedian Bob Hope was a frequent White House visitor who had the honor of entertaining 11 different commanders-in-chief. In fact, he considered them the best possible audience. But of all the presidents who laughed at his jokes, Dwight D. Eisenhower was the one with whom he formed the most enduring relationship.

They met in Algeria in 1943 when Eisenhower was a General for the U.S. Army and Hope was performing at a United Service Organization show. They immediately hit it off. Even when Ike became president 10 years later their friendship continued. They often exchanged letters and played golf together.

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Ben Affleck and Matt Damon

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Matt Damon and Ben Affleck met in the 1980s in Cambridge, Massachusetts when they were still young children. They bonded over their passion for basketball and acting, and have been friends ever since. In fact, while in high school, they often traveled together to audition.

Damon and Affleck's partnership is arguably one of the most successful in Hollywood. They not only acted in movies together several times, but they also co-wrote the screenplay for Good Will Hunting , which earned them an Academy Award for Best Original Screenplay in 1997.

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Truman Capote and Barbara "Babe" Paley

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Another controversial friendship was that of author Truman Capote and New York socialite Barbara "Babe" Paley. This odd couple met in the late 1960s after Capote published In Cold Blood and became something of a celebrity. They quickly became close friends and confidants.

However, when in 1975 Capote published a preview of his forthcoming book Answered Prayers in Esquire magazine airing some of his friend’s secrets, their relationship was forever ruined. Although the writer admired Babe and considered her perfect, he could not resist the temptation to betray her.

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John F. Kennedy and Frank Sinatra

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No one knows exactly when and how they met, but it is not surprising that US President John F. Kennedy and music legend Frank Sinatra were friends. In addition to their mutual admiration, their relationship was beneficial to both. Sinatra gained access to the halls of power, while Kennedy relied on The Voice's charm and popularity to win votes in the 1960 presidential election.

When Kennedy won, the president-elect publicly thanked Sinatra for his campaign efforts. Unfortunately, the friendship fell apart after JFK entered the White House. According to lore, First Lady Jackie Kennedy didn't like the singer. And, let's be honest, Sinatra's alleged connections to organized crime weren't a good look for a head of state anyway.

History History 3 min read

Think you know presidents?

Did you know a US president did this? 10 records held by US presidents

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Being President of the United States doesn't mean you can't also be a record-breaker. In fact, several presidents have set some interesting and fun records during their time in office. Want to know who had the most expensive inauguration ever? Or who appeared on the most magazine covers? What about the president with the most children, or the one who lived the longest? All the answers are in this article. Come check it out!

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The most expensive presidential inauguration

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Presidential inaugurations are grand events attended by politicians and influential figures, so it’s no surprise they can come with a hefty price tag. The record for the most expensive US presidential inauguration goes to Donald Trump, with an estimated cost of around $230 million. He had already set the record in 2017 with a $107 million inauguration, which at the time surpassed Barack Obama’s 2009 expenditures of roughly $53 million.

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The US president with the most Time magazine covers

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Of course, presidents are always in the spotlight: We see them on social media, on TV, and on the covers of newspapers and magazines. As of April 2025, Donald Trump had appeared on 46 Time magazine covers, tying with Ronald Reagan. But the record still belongs to Richard Nixon, who holds the title with an impressive 55 covers!

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The president who lived the longest

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Jimmy Carter was the US president who lived the longest. Born in October 1924 and passing away in December 2024 at the age of 100 years , 2 months, and 29 days, Jimmy Carter surpassed the previous record held by George H. W. Bush, who lived to be 94. Pretty impressive, wouldn't you agree?

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The president with the most children

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If managing a household with three kids sounds tough, imagine having 15! John Tyler holds the record for the most children of any US president. He had 15 in total: eight with his first wife, Letitia Christian Tyler, and seven with his second wife, Julia Gardiner Tyler.

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Most handshakes by a head of state

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Yes, there's even a record for this. Believe it or not, Guinness World Records lists Teddy Roosevelt as the US president who gave the most handshakes in a single day. Want to know how many? On New Year's Day in 1907, President Roosevelt held an open house where he shook hands with an incredible 8,513 people.

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Most pets in the White House

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Which president holds the record for having the most pets living in the White House? With an incredible 48 animals, that would be Theodore Roosevelt! We couldn’t list them all here, but a few examples speak for themselves: during his presidency, Roosevelt owned a black bear, a badger, a hyena, several dogs and cats of different breeds, horses, ponies, guinea pigs, a lizard, a pig, and even an owl!

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First president to be given a Secret Service code name

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Secret Service protection for US presidents became permanent in the early 1950s. In 1951, the first presidential code name was assigned: "General." Who used it? Our 33rd president, Harry S. Truman. Since then, every US president and their immediate family members have been given Secret Service code names.

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The youngest

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The youngest president in US history was Theodore Roosevelt. However, he wasn't elected to his first term; he assumed office at age 42 following the assassination of William McKinley. Considering that, the youngest president ever elected was John F. Kennedy, who won the presidency in 1960 at the age of 43.

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Oldest elected as US president

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While JFK and Teddy Roosevelt hold the record as the youngest men to become US presidents, Donald Trump sits on the opposite end. President Trump was 78 when he was elected to his second term, making him the oldest person ever elected to the office. In doing so, he broke the record previously held by Joe Biden, who was elected in 2020 at 77.

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First US president to use email in office

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There's a first time for everything, even for presidents! And that includes sending an email. Although email is everywhere today, the first US president to use it was Bill Clinton. He was the first to have a White House email address , though he admitted to using it only sparingly.

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