Do you practice any of these?
From RSVPs to sunglasses: 12 etiquette rules that deserve a comeback
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Etiquette may sometimes seem old-fashioned, but there are a few rules from the past that deserve a comeback. Little things like taking off your sunglasses indoors, standing up when greeting someone new, or writing a thank-you note after receiving a gift may feel a little dated, but they’ve got a charm that’s hard to ignore. Do you think these 12 small rules should be brought back?
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Pulling out the good china
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In the past, people often had a set of special dishes reserved for holidays or important guests to make meals feel more memorable.
Today, many people use just one set of dishes and often eat casually, sometimes even standing over the sink. Taking the time to create a pleasant dining experience can show respect not only for your guests but also for yourself .
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Good table manners
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Good table manners are often mistaken for being overly formal or pretentious, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.
The true purpose of practicing polite dining habits is to make sure everyone enjoys a relaxed and pleasant meal together , and it’s often easier to practice than most people realize.
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Not taking off your shoes in public
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Recently, there’s been a noticeable trend of people going shoeless in places like airplanes and restaurants. As society grows more casual, some even put their bare feet on seats, armrests, or tables.
However, it's best to keep your shoes on in public unless your host specifically asks you to remove them.
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Standing when greeting someone new
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When meeting someone for the first time or welcoming someone into a group, it's polite to stand as a gesture of acknowledgment .
This simple act, expected of both men and women, conveys both warmth and respect.
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Making introductions
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Making introductions is becoming less common, yet it remains one of the most valuable social skills. Even if you forget someone’s name, it’s always better to ask than to risk letting them feel left out in a group.
Good manners are all about helping others feel at ease , and introductions don’t have to be uncomfortable or awkward when done with a little thought and effort.
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Thank-you notes
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While everyone enjoys being thanked, it has become rare for people to express gratitude in a lasting way. Any form of thanks, including a text or email, is appreciated, but a handwritten thank-you card remains the most meaningful .
The personal touch of seeing your handwriting shows thoughtfulness, and many people cherish and keep these cards, something that’s much harder to do with digital messages.
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Asking permission
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In a society where people often say, "It’s easier to apologize than to ask for permission," many act without asking, whether it’s hugging someone, posting their picture online, or taking a bite of their food.
However, it’s always more polite to ask before doing anything that involves or affects someone else . A simple question like "Are you okay with this?" can go a long way toward showing respect without taking up much time.
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Opening doors for men and women
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Chivalry may have some outdated interpretations, but politeness is something everyone can practice, regardless of gender . Simple acts like holding the door open are easy to do and appreciated by everyone.
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Holding the elevator
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In today’s world, many people are either too wary of strangers or adopt a "not my problem" attitude when seeing someone struggle in public. But as long as there’s no safety concern, it's important to continue practicing simple courtesies, like holding the elevator door for someone in a hurry .
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Returning phone calls
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As society evolves, so does etiquette, especially with the rise of new technology, but some shifts aren't always for the better. A common example is responding to a phone call with a text message.
While some people may prefer texting over speaking on the phone, it’s still considered polite to return a call with another phone call , particularly when someone has taken the time to reach out to you.
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No sunglasses indoors
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These days, it’s common to see people wearing sunglasses everywhere, even in places like movie theaters, but it raises a question: Are we avoiding others, or simply hiding behind our shades?
Eye contact is essential for effective communication, as it demonstrates respect and facilitates understanding. While it's fine to wear sunglasses outdoors, it’s best to take them off indoors to engage properly with others.
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RSVP’ing promptly
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With the rise of casual invites, often sent by email or social media, RSVPing has become increasingly rare. Failing to respond to an invitation is not only poor etiquette but also inconsiderate.
Hosts put significant time and effort into planning events, from buying food to organizing entertainment. Not RSVPing or waiting until the last minute only makes their job harder.
