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From RSVPs to sunglasses: 12 etiquette rules that deserve a comeback

Etiquette may sometimes seem old-fashioned, but there are a few rules from the past that could use a comeback. Little things like taking off your sunglasses indoors, standing up when greeting someone new, or writing a thank-you note after receiving a gift may feel a little dated, but they’ve got a charm that’s hard to ignore. Do you think these 12 small rules should be brought back?

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Pulling out the good china

In the past, people often had a set of special dishes reserved for holidays or important guests to make meals feel more memorable.

Today, many people use just one set of dishes and often eat casually, sometimes even standing over the sink. Taking the time to create a pleasant dining experience can help show respect for yourself and others.

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Good table manners

Good table manners are often mistakenly thought of as overly formal or pretentious, but that's far from the reality.

The true purpose of practicing polite dining habits is to make sure everyone enjoys a relaxed and pleasant meal together, and it's easier than most people think.

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Not taking off your shoes in public

Lately, there's been a noticeable trend of people going shoeless in places like airplanes and restaurants. As society becomes more casual, some are even putting their bare feet on seats, armrests, and tables.

However, it's best to keep your shoes on in public unless your host specifically asks you to remove them.

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Standing when greeting someone new

When meeting someone for the first time or welcoming someone into a group, it's polite to stand as a gesture of acknowledgment.

This simple act, expected of both men and women, conveys warmth and respect.

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Making introductions

Making introductions is becoming less common, yet it’s one of the most valuable social skills we can use. Even if you forget someone’s name, it’s always better to ask than to let them feel left out in a group.

Good manners are all about helping others feel at ease, and introductions don’t have to be uncomfortable or awkward when done with a little thought and effort.

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Thank-you notes

While everyone enjoys being thanked, it’s rare for people to remember to show gratitude these days. Any form of thanks, including a text or email, is appreciated, but a handwritten thank-you card remains the most meaningful.

The personal touch of seeing your handwriting shows thoughtfulness, and many people cherish and keep these cards, something that’s harder to do with digital messages.

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Asking permission

In a society where it’s often assumed that "it’s easier to apologize than ask for permission," people tend to act without asking, whether it’s hugging someone, posting their picture online, or grabbing a bite of their food.

However, it’s always polite to ask for permission before doing anything that involves or affects someone else. A simple question like "Are you okay with this?" can go a long way in showing respect without taking up much time.

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Opening doors for men and women

Chivalry may have some outdated interpretations, but politeness is something everyone can practice, regardless of gender. Simple acts like holding the door open are easy to do and appreciated by everyone.

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Holding the elevator

In today’s world, many people are too wary of strangers or adopt a "not my problem" attitude when seeing someone struggle in public. But as long as there’s no safety concern, it's important to continue practicing simple courtesies, like holding the elevator door for someone in a hurry.

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Returning phone calls

As society evolves, so does etiquette, especially with the influence of technology, but some shifts aren't always for the better. A common example is responding to a phone call with a text.

While some people may prefer texting over speaking on the phone, it’s still considered polite to return a call with another phone call, especially when someone has taken the time to reach out to you.

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No sunglasses indoors

It's common to see people wearing sunglasses everywhere these days, even in places like movie theaters, but it raises the question: Are we avoiding others or just hiding behind our shades?

Eye contact is key to effective communication, as it shows respect and helps with understanding. While it's fine to wear sunglasses outdoors, it’s best to take them off indoors to engage properly with others.

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RSVP’ing promptly

With the rise of casual invites, often sent by email or social media, RSVPing has become increasingly rare. Failing to respond to an invitation is both a bad etiquette move and inconsiderate.

Hosts put significant time and effort into planning events, from buying food to organizing entertainment. Not RSVPing or waiting until the last minute only makes their job harder.

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