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Do you practice any of these?

From RSVPs to sunglasses: 12 etiquette rules that deserve a comeback

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Etiquette may sometimes seem old-fashioned, but there are a few rules from the past that deserve a comeback. Little things like taking off your sunglasses indoors, standing up when greeting someone new, or writing a thank-you note after receiving a gift may feel a little dated, but they’ve got a charm that’s hard to ignore. Do you think these 12 small rules should be brought back?

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Pulling out the good china

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In the past, people often had a set of special dishes reserved for holidays or important guests to make meals feel more memorable.

Today, many people use just one set of dishes and often eat casually, sometimes even standing over the sink. Taking the time to create a pleasant dining experience can show respect not only for your guests but also for yourself .

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Good table manners

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Good table manners are often mistaken for being overly formal or pretentious, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.

The true purpose of practicing polite dining habits is to make sure everyone enjoys a relaxed and pleasant meal together , and it’s often easier to practice than most people realize.

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Not taking off your shoes in public

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Recently, there’s been a noticeable trend of people going shoeless in places like airplanes and restaurants. As society grows more casual, some even put their bare feet on seats, armrests, or tables.

However, it's best to keep your shoes on in public unless your host specifically asks you to remove them.

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Standing when greeting someone new

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When meeting someone for the first time or welcoming someone into a group, it's polite to stand as a gesture of acknowledgment .

This simple act, expected of both men and women, conveys both warmth and respect.

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Making introductions

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Making introductions is becoming less common, yet it remains one of the most valuable social skills. Even if you forget someone’s name, it’s always better to ask than to risk letting them feel left out in a group.

Good manners are all about helping others feel at ease , and introductions don’t have to be uncomfortable or awkward when done with a little thought and effort.

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Thank-you notes

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While everyone enjoys being thanked, it has become rare for people to express gratitude in a lasting way. Any form of thanks, including a text or email, is appreciated, but a handwritten thank-you card remains the most meaningful .

The personal touch of seeing your handwriting shows thoughtfulness, and many people cherish and keep these cards, something that’s much harder to do with digital messages.

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Asking permission

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In a society where people often say, "It’s easier to apologize than to ask for permission," many act without asking, whether it’s hugging someone, posting their picture online, or taking a bite of their food.

However, it’s always more polite to ask before doing anything that involves or affects someone else . A simple question like "Are you okay with this?" can go a long way toward showing respect without taking up much time.

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Opening doors for men and women

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Chivalry may have some outdated interpretations, but politeness is something everyone can practice, regardless of gender . Simple acts like holding the door open are easy to do and appreciated by everyone.

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Holding the elevator

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In today’s world, many people are either too wary of strangers or adopt a "not my problem" attitude when seeing someone struggle in public. But as long as there’s no safety concern, it's important to continue practicing simple courtesies, like holding the elevator door for someone in a hurry .

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Returning phone calls

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As society evolves, so does etiquette, especially with the rise of new technology, but some shifts aren't always for the better. A common example is responding to a phone call with a text message.

While some people may prefer texting over speaking on the phone, it’s still considered polite to return a call with another phone call , particularly when someone has taken the time to reach out to you.

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No sunglasses indoors

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These days, it’s common to see people wearing sunglasses everywhere, even in places like movie theaters, but it raises a question: Are we avoiding others, or simply hiding behind our shades?

Eye contact is essential for effective communication, as it demonstrates respect and facilitates understanding. While it's fine to wear sunglasses outdoors, it’s best to take them off indoors to engage properly with others.

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RSVP’ing promptly

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With the rise of casual invites, often sent by email or social media, RSVPing has become increasingly rare. Failing to respond to an invitation is not only poor etiquette but also inconsiderate.

Hosts put significant time and effort into planning events, from buying food to organizing entertainment. Not RSVPing or waiting until the last minute only makes their job harder.

Culture Culture 4 min read

Was the 1950s truly the best decade to live the American Dream?

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Emerging from the shadows of the Great Depression and World War II, 1950s America entered an era of optimism. It was a decade where the "American Dream" shifted from a concept to a tangible reality for millions of citizens. From the music playing on portable radios to the sudden affordability of a home with a yard, the fifties reshaped the cultural, technological, and economic landscape of the country. In this article, we explore 10 core reasons why the 1950s are remembered as an exceptionally great time to be an American.

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Economic prosperity

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The foundation of everything that made the fifties fabulous was a booming economy. Following the end of World War II, the United States found itself as the world’s undisputed industrial leader, while much of Europe was still rebuilding.

Unemployment rates consistently dropped below 3%. Jobs were secure and offered strong wages that regularly surpassed inflation. Also, purchasing power exploded to the point where a single working-class income could comfortably cover a mortgage, buy a vehicle, and keep a pantry fully stocked, allowing financial stability for the average family.

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The rise of suburbia

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With wallets full and families growing, millions of Americans left the crowded urban centers and headed for the periphery. The 1950s birthed the modern American suburb.

Developers revolutionized the housing industry by applying assembly line tactics to real estate, producing affordable homes. With low-cost mortgages, buying a suburban home suddenly became cheaper than renting a cramped city apartment. Suburbia became synonymous with safe, community-driven neighborhood living.

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Baby Boom era

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When the soldiers returned home from the war, they built families at a record pace. The "Baby Boom" era saw an astonishing 4 million babies born every single year in the U.S. throughout the decade.

By the time the boom dwindled, nearly 77 million new Americans had entered the world, shifting the nation’s commercial, architectural, and social priorities toward youth and family life. It was an era focused on domestic stability and a collective desire to protect and celebrate childhood.

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Advances in medicine

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Living in the 1950s meant witnessing some of the most profound medical miracles in human history. With the introduction of widespread inoculations, better anesthesia, and advanced pharmaceuticals, life expectancy surged.

In 1955, Dr. Jonas Salk’s polio vaccine was declared safe and effective. Within a few short years, a terrifying disease that had paralyzed thousands of children annually was near eradication. The fifties also welcomed the first successful human kidney transplant and massive structural breakthroughs in open-heart surgery.

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The golden age of television

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Before the 1950s, the radio was the centerpiece of the American living room. By the end of the decade, a glowing box took its place, permanently altering entertainment, news, and daily habits.

Electronic companies began mass-producing television sets that quickly became affordable for the average middle-class family. Americans gathered every night to share laughs over I Love Lucy , watch historic variety hours like The Ed Sullivan Show , or catch Westerns and championship wrestling. Millions of people across different states were suddenly watching the same stories, creating a unified national culture.

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Iconic cars and drive-in culture

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Besides being a mode of transportation, the automobile in the 1950s was a declaration of personal freedom. Coupled with the expansion of the Interstate Highway System, car culture gave birth to a new social ecosystem.

Detroit created iconic machines like the Chevrolet Bel Air, with its tail fins that mirrored the era’s obsession with aviation and rocket design. Drive-in movie theaters and diners with roller-skating carhops became the epicenter of teenage social life, offering a sense of autonomy and mobility.

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Rock ‘n’ Roll revolution

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The fifties gave birth to the teenager as a distinct cultural demographic, and that demographic needed its own unique soundtrack.

Pioneering artists like Elvis Presley, Chuck Berry, Bill Haley, and Little Richard fused rhythm and blues with country music to create a loud, energetic, and infectious sound. Enabled by the invention of the portable transistor radio and cheap vinyl records, teenagers could listen to their own music away from their parents. This sparked a youth counterculture that laid the groundwork for decades of musical and social evolution.

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Space Race beginnings

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The late 1950s forced Americans to look up to the stars. When the Soviet Union successfully launched Sputnik in 1957, it ignited a fierce competitive drive known as the Space Race.

This cosmic rivalry meant that the government focused on funding science, mathematics, engineering, and technological research. The founding of NASA in 1958 captured the public’s imagination more than anything before. To be an American in the late fifties was to live on the precipice of the future.

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Innovations in Technology & Home Life

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Daily domestic life underwent a radical upgrade in the 1950s, driven by an explosion of household appliances designed to maximize comfort and convenience. These innovations dramatically decreased the physical labor and hours required for chores, meaning extra leisure time for homemakers.

Refrigerators evolved with groundbreaking features like automatic defrosting and adjustable shelving. Meanwhile, early residential microwaves, automated dishwashers, and washing machines became standard fixtures. Also, the introduction of the frozen "TV Dinner" and the rise of fast-food restaurants like McDonald’s translated into less cooking.

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Fashion & Glamour

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1950s American style was all about elegance and sophistication, moving away from the utilitarian garments of the wartime 1940s. Driven by Christian Dior’s "New Look," women’s fashion celebrated the classic hourglass silhouette with cinched waists, sharp tailoring, and voluminous skirts.

Poodle skirts and black-and-white saddle shoes dominated high school hallways, while Hollywood icons like Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, and Grace Kelly set the glamour standard. For men, sharp suits, narrow ties, and slicked back hair defined a timeless aesthetic.

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Sweet memories

We love these 10 amazing American pies and cakes!

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It shouldn’t come as a surprise that America loves pies and cakes. After all, they are our go-to sweet treats for celebrations and special events. Whether it’s a filling slice of apple pie on the 4th of July or blowing out the candles on your favorite birthday cake, we all have warm memories associated with these delicious desserts. With that in mind, we’ve selected 10 of our favorite American pies and cakes, hoping to pay a fitting tribute to these amazing sweet treats. Enjoy!

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Apple pie

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We’ll start with an undisputed American icon: After all, doesn’t the saying go, "as American as apple pie" ? This iconic treat has been at the heart of countless American traditions, perhaps most notably during Independence Day celebrations. Fireworks and a slice of apple pie are all we need for a 4th of July to remember.

While apple pies originated in 14th-century England, it wasn’t until they arrived in America that they became a global icon. Over the centuries, several recipes and toppings have emerged, such as whipped cream, ice cream, custard, or even cheddar cheese.

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Key lime pie

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Who says pies can’t be sour? The Key Lime Pie is the perfect example of a " When life gives you lemons " mentality: it takes the lime, a fruit that no one would want to eat raw, and transforms it into a luscious and delicious treat.

The Key Lime Pie is Florida’s official state pie, as it was invented in the "Sunshine State" during the 1940s. Not only that, but the traditional way to make this pie uses Key limes, which get their name from the Florida Keys where they are grown.

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Blueberry pie

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Just like pumpkin pies, blueberry pies were first created by American settlers , who used the abundant varieties of blueberries found in the country to make these delicious treats. Over time, their popularity spread to Europe, where people used their own types of blueberries to try to replicate the American versions.

This sweet treat has become synonymous with the state of Maine, where blueberry pie made with wild Maine blueberries was designated as the official state dessert. However, blueberry pie is still happily enjoyed across the entire nation.

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Pumpkin pie

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Just like apple pie is the go-to dessert for the 4th of July, pumpkin pie is instantly associated with Thanksgiving . After all, the origins of this delicious treat can be traced back to the very first American colonists, though it was served in a very different manner. Historians believe that these early versions of pumpkin pie were more akin to a type of pumpkin soup, served inside a hollowed-out pumpkin.

Nowadays, the pumpkin pie we know and love is made with eggs, milk, evaporated sugar, and several spices like nutmeg, ginger, and cinnamon, often topped with a generous dollop of whipped cream.

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Boston Cream pie

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According to some historians, Armenian-French chef Mossburg Sanzian created a particularly delicious cream-filled cake one afternoon in 1856 at the Parker House Hotel in Boston. Unbeknownst to Sanzian, his creation would eventually become the iconic Boston cream pie , declared Massachusetts’ official state dessert in 1996.

Since that day in 1856, this iconic dessert has gone by many names, such as "chocolate cream pie" and "Parker House chocolate cream pie." You might be confused by our use of the word "cake," but that was no mistake: The Boston cream pie is technically a cake. Its confusing name comes from the fact that, in the 19th century, both cakes and pies were baked in the same pan, which led these two words to become synonyms.

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Peanut Pie

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American President James "Jimmy" Carter is still well-known for his love of peanuts, so it stands to reason that his beloved wife, Rosalynn, was known for her delicious peanut pie . After all, this pie is a staple of Southern cuisine and is especially beloved in Carter’s home state of Georgia.

Peanut pie is similar to pecan pie in that they are prepared with similar ingredients, such as corn syrup, eggs, and sugar. However, peanut pie is highly versatile and may include other ingredients, such as molasses, cayenne pepper, bourbon, or cream cheese.

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Marionberry Pie

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The marionberry pie is a delicious treat, particularly popular in the Pacific Northwest. After all, this type of blackberry is named after Marion County in Oregon , where it was bred and tested during the 20th century.

As you would expect, the marionberry pie is Oregon’s official state pie, and it truly shows. If you ever happen to visit "The Beaver State" during berry season, you’ll probably be welcomed with a warm smile and a slice of delicious marionberry pie.

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Peach cobbler

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Cobbler is definitely the entry with the most baffling name on this list. After all, what does a shoemaker have to do with this delicious dessert? In any case, don’t let this unusual name discourage you; cobblers are a simple yet amazing sweet treat.

While we would love to include as many types of cobblers as we could find, for brevity's sake, we’ll instead focus on one of the most popular cobblers in America: Peach cobbler combines the sweetness and texture of peaches with a crumbly, sweet topping. In 2013, Texas declared the peach cobbler its official state cobbler.

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Pecan pie

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Standing on the other side of peanut pie, we have pecan pie, another Southern delicacy . Just like peanut pie, pecan pie might seem simple at first glance, but there are several variants and styles associated with this sweet treat. Different recipes include molasses, honey, or cane syrup.

In the American South, pecan pie is closely associated with the holidays, especially Thanksgiving and Christmas. Due to its status as a cultural icon, Texas declared pecan pie its official state pie.

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Cherry pie

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While most of us associate the 4th of July with apple pie, it should also be noted that many Americans picture a delicious slice of cherry pie when reminiscing about our Independence Day. Like many other pies on this list, cherry pie can be enjoyed with whipped cream or ice cream.

Cherry pie is also deeply ingrained in American folk songs , such as "Billy Boy," where the titular character is asked whether his bride-to-be can cook a cherry pie. Additionally, cherry pie is linked to George Washington’s birthday, thanks to the popular legend of a young Washington chopping down his father’s cherry tree.

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