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Not seeing each other before the wedding

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Not seeing each other before the wedding was once considered essential. This superstition comes from the era of arranged marriages, when it was feared the couple might back out if they met beforehand. It evolved into the romantic "first look" at the altar. Many couples now skip it in favor of private pre-ceremony photos. Understandable!

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Marrying in white

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Popularized by Queen Victoria in 1840, the white gown symbolized purity and wealth. U.S. brides embraced the trend for over a century, but modern weddings increasingly feature colorful gowns or non-traditional attire. Some pick their favorite color! Why not?

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Wearing a veil

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Once meant to protect brides from evil spirits or hide them from jealous eyes, the veil became a symbol of modesty. In the U.S., it persisted more as a fashion choice. Today, many brides favor hairpieces, flowers, or nothing at all.

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Roast speeches

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Roast-style speeches became popular as toasts with a humorous edge, sometimes poking fun at the couple, especially at casual receptions. While funny for some, they’ve also led to plenty of awkward moments. Have you ever seen a video online of particularly harsh ones? As a result, many weddings now stick to heartfelt speeches to avoid offense.

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Throwing a bouquet

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This playful tradition gave single women a "good luck" charm for marriage. It replaced older customs where guests tore pieces from the bride’s dress for luck. Many couples now swap it for alternative games or skip it entirely.

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Receiving queues

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For decades, couples stood in a formal line after the ceremony to greet each guest in turn. It was a way to ensure everyone felt acknowledged. But some prefer not to miss that informal mingling during the reception! Instead, they spend time with their loved ones more casually, enjoying the natural flow of the party.

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Matching bridesmaids’ dresses

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Tradition once had bridesmaids dressed alike in the same color, cut, and fabric to create a uniform look. Today’s weddings often mix styles, shades, and even prints. The change allows friends to choose something flattering—and something they can actually wear again.

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Full sit-down dinners

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The classic multi-course plated meal was once a wedding reception staple. Today, many couples opt for food trucks, buffet tables, or hearty hors d’oeuvres for a more social, less formal vibe. And, let’s face it, it also helps with costs and keeps the timeline flexible.

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Saving the top tier of the cake

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Couples once froze the top tier of their wedding cake to eat on their first anniversary, as a symbol of enduring love. But after a year in the freezer, the result was often stale and unappetizing. These days, many order a fresh mini cake instead.

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Rice throwing

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Showering the couple with rice at the exit was a long-held sign of prosperity and fertility. Concerns over mess, safety, and wildlife led to alternatives like bubbles, sparklers, or flower petals. The celebration remains, just with less sweeping.

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Dollar dance

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In this tradition, guests paid for a short dance with the bride or groom, contributing to the couple’s honeymoon fund. It was playful and personal, but could feel awkward or even outdated. Many couples now skip it in favor of more inclusive group dances.

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Matching family seating sides

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Traditionally, guests sat on the side of the family they knew best—the bride’s family on the left, the groom’s on the right. Today, signs inviting guests to "sit anywhere" reflect a blending of families and a more casual approach. Alternatively, tables may be intentionally assigned to mix new people together.

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Garter tosses

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Once a bawdy medieval custom where guests scrambled for proof of consummation, it became a lighthearted party moment in American weddings. The groom removes and tosses the bride’s garter to single men. Today, it’s often skipped because it can feel outdated or awkward.

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No Taxation Without Representation

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After the French and Indian War in 1763, American colonists were surprised to find that, instead of being rewarded for their efforts, the British Parliament raised their taxes and enacted new ones, such as the Stamp Act and Townshend Acts. Soon, these burdensome laws sparked widespread protests and boycotts under the rallying cry of "No Taxation Without Representation."

Initially, most colonists only wanted to be recognized as rightful British citizens. However, the brutal reaction of the Crown—sending troops to contain the unrest and force compliance—convinced many that independence was the only way to achieve their rights. The tragic incident known as the Boston Massacre on March 5, 1770, was the tipping point in this chain of events, inflaming anti-British sentiment.

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Boston Tea Party

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The Tea Act, enacted on May 10, 1773, granted the British East India Company a monopoly on tea sales in the colonies, further enraging the already weary colonists. This led a group of rebel colonists, known as the Sons of Liberty, to take matters into their own hands. In direct response to the Tea Act, they boarded British ships and dumped 342 chests of tea into Boston Harbor, worth £9,659 (equivalent to $1,700,000 today).

This act of defiance, later known as the Boston Tea Party , was a bold statement against British taxation and control. However, it also prompted the British government to further restrict colonial autonomy by implementing the Intolerable Acts (also known as the Coercive Acts).

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The Midnight Ride

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The British government's punitive measures only fueled the burgeoning revolutionary movement. In 1774, the First Continental Congress was convened, with representatives from each colony attending. During these meetings, the delegates agreed to coordinate militia training and resistance.

The situation remained tense for a year until King George ordered British troops to seize the rebels' weapons and arrest their leaders. However, the colonial militia was warned of the approaching British forces the night before, thanks to the heroic midnight ride of Paul Revere and other patriots. Their ride was crucial in mobilizing the Minutemen and ensuring they were prepared for the British assault.

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Shot Heard 'Round the World

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The first shots of the American Revolutionary War were fired on April 19, 1775, in Massachusetts. British troops aimed to seize colonial arms, but the Minutemen refused to comply and confronted them, leading to a series of skirmishes known as the Battles of Lexington and Concord. These clashes demonstrated the colonies' determination to fight for their rights and ignited an all-out war.

The first significant military encounter of the American Revolutionary War, it resulted in a resounding American victory that encouraged other colonists to support and join the revolutionary efforts. Due to its significance and lasting consequences, the event was later referred to as the "shot heard round the world," a phrase that stems from the first stanza of Ralph Waldo Emerson’s 1837 commemorative poem.

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Raising the Banner

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The Battle of Bunker Hill, fought on June 17, 1775, proved that the colonists could stand up to the British army. As Loyalist forces sought to capture the strategically important hills surrounding the besieged city of Boston, Patriot Colonel William Prescott directed his troops to occupy these positions in advance.

Though the battle was technically a British victory, the colonial forces inflicted heavy casualties on the British—approximately 1,000 British soldiers compared to around 500 American casualties. This showed the Crown that quelling the fight for independence would be a long and costly campaign, while simultaneously boosting American morale and convincing many that victory was within reach.

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A Declaration of Independence

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Emboldened by their success, on July 4, 1776, the Continental Congress—at the time the de facto unified colonial government representing each of the former colonies—adopted the Declaration of Independence .

Drafted primarily by Thomas Jefferson, the document declared the colonies' separation from Britain and articulated a vision of liberty and democracy , rejecting monarchy and aristocracy. It was a bold assertion of the colonies' right to self-governance, inspiring similar revolutionary movements around the world and influencing future generations.

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Crossing the Delaware

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On Christmas night of 1776, General Washington led a daring and successful surprise attack across the icy Delaware River. This bold maneuver demonstrated both Washington's genius and leadership, as well as the Continental Army's resolve to defeat the British forces at any cost.

The subsequent victory at the Battle of Trenton significantly boosted morale and reinvigorated the revolutionary cause across the continent. Despite the British having considerable advantages, including a highly trained and battle-tested army, they systematically underestimated the revolutionaries, believing them to be merely a group of renegades whose defeat would restore loyalist allegiance to the Crown.

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Turning the Tide

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The American victory at the Battle of Saratoga in late 1777 marked a turning point in the war. Not only did American forces manage to capture a large British invasion army and halt the British advance in the north, but the triumph also resonated across Europe.

When news of General Burgoyne's surrender reached France, it convinced King Louis XVI to join the conflict as an ally to the Americans, providing much-needed military support and resources. This alliance significantly bolstered the American cause and forced the British to view the war as part of a larger global campaign, further straining their already depleted resources.

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The French Connection

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The Siege of Yorktown in 1781 was the last major land battle of the Revolutionary War. American and French forces, led by General Washington and General Rochambeau, successfully trapped British General Cornwallis's army.

The Franco-American alliance proved decisive, compelling Cornwallis to surrender and prompting the British government to negotiate an end to the increasingly costly conflict. This effectively ended major combat operations and marked the beginning of the end for British rule in America.

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Negotiating Peace

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The Treaty of Paris , signed on September 3, 1783, officially ended the Revolutionary War. Negotiated by American diplomats Benjamin Franklin, John Adams, and John Jay, it recognized American independence and established borders for the new nation. The treaty delineated the boundaries between British North America, later known as Canada, and the nascent United States.

Although British efforts to undermine the American colonies persisted for decades, eventually leading to the War of 1812, the treaty granted legitimacy to the revolutionaries' efforts on the world stage and marked the beginning of a new era.

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Spotted and striped cucumber beetles

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Striped and spotted cucumber beetles favor cucumbers and melon vines. These insects spread bacterial wilt from plant to plant, a disease that is often fatal. When striped cucumber beetles are a chronic problem, the best course of action is to choose bacterial-wilt-resistant cucumber varieties .

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Colorado potato beetle

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As the name implies, the surest way to attract Colorado potato beetles to your garden is by planting potatoes. These insects lay clusters of orange-yellow eggs on the undersides of leaves, which hatch into highly destructive orange larvae that feed voraciously and grow quickly. While beetles can be killed at any stage, it's easiest to remove the adults and eggs by hand .

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Eggplant flea beetle

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Eggplant flea beetles can destroy an eggplant plant in just a few days. While many insecticides can kill these pests, the most effective method requires protecting plants with summer-weight floating row covers. These covers transmit enough sunlight while physically blocking the beetles from the plants.

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Harlequin cabbage bug

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These insects might look striking, but they are the worst enemy of summer kale, broccoli, and other brassicas. They suck the sap from leaves, leaving behind unsightly pockmarks.

Harlequin cabbage bugs can be picked off by hand , and wearing a face mask can help you avoid the unpleasant odor they emit. Also, spraying them off with a jet of water will help knock them back.

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Mexican bean beetle

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In a similar case to the one we mentioned earlier, it’s the larvae of Mexican bean beetles that cause the most damage. The adults emerge in late spring but usually don’t become a serious problem on bean plants until midsummer.

The best way to deal with this pest may seem harsh, but necessary if you want to keep your other plants safe: you must completely harvest and remove the infested plants from the garden . After picking all the beans, the entire plant should be pulled, bagged, and taken far away from the garden.

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Red spider mites

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Tiny red spider mites live on the undersides of leaves, where they feed on plant sap. To control them, the best approach is to increase humidity and, if growing under glass, introduce a biological control . Alternatively, organic sprays can also be effective.

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Codling moth

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These moths are responsible for the maggots found in apples. To avoid these, spray emerging caterpillars twice with bifenthrin , starting in midsummer. Another useful method involves hanging pheromone traps in late spring to catch male moths and prevent them from mating.

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Winter moth

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Winter moth caterpillars hide inside webbed leaves on fruit trees during the spring. One effective way to control these pests is by applying sticky traps to capture the adult moths before they lay eggs.

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Scale insects

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Scale insects cluster on branches and beneath leaves, often leading to poor plant growth. Other common symptoms include sticky excretions (called honeydew) and the development of sooty mold, especially on evergreens. The solution is to wash off the mold and spray the plant with horticultural oil .

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Viburnum beetle

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The Viburnum beetle and its larvae can create holes in the leaves. The answer to this is to spray the areas affected during the spring with bifenthrin or thiacloprid .

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Adult vine weevil

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The adult weevil is a nocturnal, flightless insect that makes notches in the leaves of your plants. To control this pest, apply nematodes by mixing them with water and applying the solution to the soil in the affected area.

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Rose slug

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The rose slug is easy to overlook until its feeding starts to damage the leaves. Rose slugs feed on the undersides of leaves, out of sight, nibbling on the tissue between the veins. By the time they’re done, the leaves often resemble skeletons.

Luckily, the solution only requires blasting the slugs off the roses with a spray of water or treating them with spinosad, a bioinsecticide derived from soil bacteria.